I’ll be going to be in about 2 hours, anyone up for a quick Q&A? I’ll be online, so ask me!!
Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear that!!! Myself and the other girls are here for you. I’m sorry hun. Sometimes the “L” word freaks people out so much they run :( it’s not always fair.
for christmas* adding on do that last ask.
If he has the leave dates and he put in his request then he can most likely take leave. And if he has the money. Ive been told the plane tickets are super expensive.
Hope you all have a marvelous day! :)
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Odd story when my ex was in AIT I came close to one of his buddies his name is Wade. He is not active duty Just national guard at the moment but he will be enlisted for active duty within the next few months. He keeps me sane with Jacob being away he is one of those guys that is a long time friend.
Don’t mind my random story..
I saw your response from militarygirlfriend and I have to agree with her. You should give yourself credit you didn’t let it get too far. It’s ok to feel upset and ashamed with yourself. But I think you need you to realize why you did it and how you tell your SO.
Take a breath and relax first. It happened and you can’t take it back. Talk to your SO when you feel the time is right. Explained what happened. But don’t wait too long it’ll make things worse. And understand he will probably be upset. But remember you were smart enough to let it stop before it got anywhere.
Oh I’m sorry!!! He probably feels like things are going a little too fast. Give him some time. And most importantly give yourself some time to just think things through. Shift your focus too it’ll help pass the time for you. Give it a little time. It’s very likely you’re the first person to say it and he didn’t know what to say or/and doesn’t feel as strongly about you and he doesn’t want to hurt you.